We are still her in San Diego.
We would be interested in any more information that you have about the Whidby/Whidbee family.
We've found a little more and would be happy to share it with you. Most comes from familysearch.org, from census and other records, two from ship logs about Robert E. Whidby, Nelo's father, so you may already have it.
Our e-mail is still firstname.lastname@example.org
Nelo and Nancy Whidby