looking for parents of Joseph R. Lacey m. Harriet Fry. He died bet. 1861 and 1865. All of their children were boys. One of the children George Washington Lacey m. Amelia Susanna Glass. One of their children was Della Elaine Lacey who married Harvey Hiester Eschelman. They had two children; one of whom is my grandmother. Any information will be greatly appriciated. Thank you.